This first appeared on my old blog, Atheist Journeys.
Right after the shooting at my school, Umpqua Community College, I
coped with the shock of it by getting rid of an enormous amount of
things, and adopting two new kittens. I would highly recommend The
Kitten Method to anyone going through grief or shock. I still love my
babies, Little Ernesto and Lulu Applesnoo.
I got rid of a lot of
things, over the years, but I also learned how to know what I would
love, and what I would get rid of right after buying it. One of the most
useful tools I thought of is something I call the Rule of Immediate
Consumption.
I ask myself if I would wear, eat, or use the item
right this minute, if I could. If I didn't like the shade of nail polish
enough to wear it that night, I probably wouldn't wear it eventually.
If I didn't like that shirt enough to wear it the next time I went out,
it was not going to be one of my favorites.
This made me feel
good, to have a clear way to know what I really like, and what I only
half-like. I saved a lot of money, too, and don't have too many
half-liked clothes. It's always the stuff you half-like that causes the
most problems, that you can't decide about.
I also try to remember
my favorite shirt or coat, etc, and think whether I like the item as
much as my current favorite. If I don't like it as much, then I won't
choose to wear it, anyway, or I'll wear it but wish I was wearing
something else.
I don't buy very many clothes anymore, and I don't feel deprived, either.
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