This article first appeared on my old blog, Atheist Journeys. It's a favorite of mine.
I like to watch minimalism videos on Youtube, including ones where
people are cleaning out their rooms and closets for the camera. I've
seen them lament that their countertops or dressers have become a
"catch-all" for all kinds of things that are out of place. But that
puzzles me, because I think that catch-alls should be built into any
system of organization.
I have a "mess box" that I put the mess
in, temporarily, so that it doesn't clutter up my dresser and floor. I
keep it under my bed. Anything that is out of place, that I just bought
and need to put away but am too tired to do so, or that I find on the
floor, goes in the box. If I did not have a mess box, then the mess
would be out in my bedroom, cluttering it up and cluttering up my mind. I
have a designated catch-all, so my dresser and floor don't become
accidental catch-alls and let things get in my way.
I
have at least two mess boxes, in fact, at any given time. I have one for
bigger things--comic books to put away, things that I've purchased that
day, papers, craft supplies out of place, etc--and one for smaller
things. The smaller one is only about the size of a small shoebox, and
all of the little things go in there--gum, mustard packets, beads that
need to get put away, lip balm, odd bits of ribbon, etc. I fill up the
little one before using the big one, unless the item is too big.
In
this way, the mess is contained, and I keep my clarity of mind. I like
to go through my stuff, so when I have the time, I go back through one
of the mess boxes, putting things in the appropriate piles and putting
them away.
If my bedroom is so messy that I don't know where to
start, I put everything in the mess boxes (as many as I need), and then
go through the boxes. It is much less overwhelming to go through a box
of stuff than to go through the top of a dresser. Everything unnecessary
on the dresser goes into a box, and I deal with it then. And it's not
overwhelming anymore! It's such a relief!
Anything I have to deal
with later, goes in the box. Anything I stumble around, goes in the box.
Anything that is hard to put away at the moment, goes in the box. It
makes everything so simple! There is a danger that the boxes will fill
up, but when they do (and most of the time, well before they do), I
simply go through the boxes.
Sometimes I go through the big mess
box, and put the little things into the little mess box, to deal with
later. It helps to deal with the big things, if you're not overwhelmed
with the little things, and vice versa! Little things are particularly
overwhelming to me, so I especially love the little mess box. But the
big things are also so much easier to deal with, if they're all gathered
in a box.
I have many different kinds of mess boxes
too. I have one for art supplies--pencils, charcoal, paper pads I'm not
using, anything like that goes into that box; I don't have room to put
all of my art supplies in one place, so they go here before being put
away. I have one for herbs and teas, one for non-perishable food, one
for yarn and other crafts. A drawer in my dresser is a catch-all for
clean clothes that I could wear again, until I put them away into the
other drawers. And of course I have a hamper for my dirty clothes, until
I put them in the laundry room. I also have an arts and crafts mess
box, near my chair where I work, so that I don't scatter little things
around my side table and floor.
My life has become so
much neater and simpler since I discovered this trick. It is so much
easier to put everything into a box, even if I am putting it away right
away. I scan the floor or dresser, figure out the things that don't need
to be there, and put them in the box. Then it becomes easier to deal
with them, because I know when I'm done cleaning and organizing and
putting things away. I am done when the box is empty (or nearly so,
though it is only a temporary home for stuff). It's much harder to
determine when a dresser or the floor is clear, however.
This also
makes it easier to group like items together, before putting them away.
If there is an eraser on the dresser, and one on the floor, you have to
get out the art-supply box twice just to put them both away while
cleaning. But if everything out of place is in a box, then all you have
to do is go through the box, picking out all of the brushes, erasers,
charcoal sticks, and other art supplies, and putting them away all at
once. And this is just one example.
This makes getting rid of stuff easier, too, since you are going through just one box, and not a whole room at once.
This
also makes finding things so much easier! I know that if I'm missing
something, there is a good chance that it is in one of the mess boxes,
since I put everything in there. The only things that lie scattered
about my floor are cat toys, and I try to limit those to the ones I
actually see the cats playing with.
Now, this mess box is not the same as the box where everything goes, that does not have a home elsewhere.
Things
may go from the mess box to the miscellaneous box, to be put away, but I
don't put the messes in the miscellaneous box. That just creates more
confusion. Little things might be put in baggies and go in the
miscellaneous box or some other place, but I don't leave them in the
mess box as their home. That just creates more confusion.
The mess
box is a temporary home. It is a box that, if everything is put away,
it is intentionally left empty, to be filled in case of mess or if
something else comes into the house.
And I have at least two
"empty" boxes at all times, a big one and a smaller one, because nothing
makes a big box seem messy and overwhelming like little things
cluttering it up. And some things are too big to be put in the smaller
box, and so end up becoming messes in my room and my life.
It
is such a relief, since I discovered this system. When my bedroom is
messy, I feel overwhelmed. But now I have a simple solution, and even
going through the boxes is much easier than sorting through a whole
surface, floor, or room. I can go through either mess box, while
watching Youtube videos and relaxing, and I don't even have to get up to
sort through these things! I do have to get up to put them away, but I
only do that when I've found all of the items in a given category. And
when I do put them away, I know exactly where they go, and I'm not
wandering aimlessly looking for something among the things that are
actually supposed to be there.
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